Physical Abuse

Introduction

Physical abuse is the most visible form of abuse. It is defined as any act which results in a non-accidental trauma or physical injury.

Facts

•    The longer the physical abuse continues, the more serious the injuries may become and the more difficult it is to eliminate the abusive behaviour.
•    Adults who were once victims of physical abuse during childhood are more likely to become perpetrators of physical violence (Report on Violence Against Children) .
•    Most of the time, abuse is committed by a parent and 2/3 of the cases involve inappropriate/excessive punishment (RCMP).
Indicators of Abuse*

•    Physical indicators: Bruises, burns, lacerations/abrasions, fractures and any other indications that the person has been physically hurt. The person gives inconsistent explanations for injuries
•    Changes in behaviour: Avoids physical contact with others, refuses to undress for gym class, reluctant to go home from school, social withdrawal, etc.
•    Engages in risk-taking behaviours: Drug or alcohol abuse, speeding, non-protected sexual activity, running away from home, self-harm, suicide attempts, eating disorders, etc.
•    Mental Health: They look/act depressed, anxious, have panic attacks, seem angry at the world, are aggressive toward others, etc.

These indicators must be taken seriously, especially if someone appears to show multiple ones. Everyone responds differently to abusive situations and showing some of these signs alone may not necessarily mean that someone is a victim of physical violence. Someone may also endure abuse without exhibiting any of the indicators listed above.

(Source: Child Abuse Prevention Website and Childwelfare.gov)

Need help?

If you are a victim of physical abuse…
•    Talk to someone you trust. Keeping the secret of the abuse can’t be easy. For one, you will feel better after you talk to someone and secondly, this person can support you while you are getting help.
•    No one deserves to be the victim of any kind of abuse. You must report it to your local police service. That’s the only way to put an end to the physical abuse.
•    Don’t hesitate to talk to a counsellor. What you have been through is quite traumatizing and seeking professional help can assist you in dealing with any feelings or effects you may be experiencing.
•    If you are not sure about reporting the abuse or if you have any questions about reporting it, call Kids Help Phone at 1-800-668-6868. Their counsellors are available to help you 24/7, and it’s also anonymous so you don’t have to worry about giving your name and number.

If you suspect or know someone who is a victim of physical abuse…
•    Help the person find someone he or she trusts to talk to.
•    Listen with open ears.
•    Support him or her through the ordeal.

Links

RCMP – The Effects of Domestic Violence on Children — Where does it Hurt? RCMP – What is Child Abuse? Department Of Justice – Family Violence Initiative Child Abuse Prevention Website Report on Violence against Children Child Welfare Kids Help Phone